Julian D'Souza transforms LIVES worldwide

So why is loss so traumatic?.

Because you LOVE you miss your special one. 

Holding on and remembering the  person beyond the loss is natural and necessary, if we are to overcome loss and live. 

Complex traumatic situations are common.

“Off load your gas or anger they say” as long as it does not hurt you or someone else. Everyone feels anger, those who are successful are those who channelize anger. Very few can. You can join their ranks if you can channelize anger to something productive and constructive. 

Depression involves inaction, a low feeling that persist for days on end. Work through a number of skills and appropriate manageable action plans to overcome Depression.

Anxiety is a protective feeling. Come to terms with panic attacks, anxious thoughts, emotions of strength, appropriate action and meditation techniques. 

It is SKILL power not WILL power.

Addiction is much more than a substance It affects lives, spouses and families. 

It is not the substance that matters but the feelings associated with the behavior. Foster an environment of recovery rather than a prolonged environment of addiction. Relapse is part of the recovery and not a setback. 

Stopping is easy, staying stopped for the rest of ones life requires a wholistic recovery process.

Abstinence and Relationship go hand in hand for Recovery to happen..

It is a luxury for someone to say that she or he is not stressed. Stress management is not about finding solutions, Many a talented individuals have either burned themselves to early in their careers or families cause they did not have the skills to endure the daily stress. Too often people resort to medication as the magic pill for the cure of stress. De-stressing and changing toxic stress into tolerable stress or good stress needs the skills of a well experienced Counselor. 

 Counselling and Therapy is not an intellectual exercise. It is an intelligent thought process that fosters emotional intelligence. Intelligence that can change everyday behavior. 

Thought and feelings need to work together to modify behavior. 

Behavior improves lives and families 

An ever changing work environment brings about challenges that a stable human being finds hard to live with. Change in the work sphere creates anxiety and unproductively. Redefining SUCCESS.

Creating a history of Success.

Having a new success criteria. 

As a relationship progresses one needs to fall in love and grow in love.

Are your Needs, Expectations, Wants  (NEW)being met. Partners and spouses do this not to find another partner but in search for belonging and self fulfilment. If a relationship does not grow it stagnates, the flow of love is the external sunshine that bathes the fragile inner soul.  

Partner violence and disrespect is becoming the norm of the day.  This is not acceptable.

Violence is not an option and yet people use bulling and cyber crime to target innocent victims. 

Putting the ME first then the WE.

Creating a new identity is critical for change to happen.

Self harm is the new cry of teens all over schools, colleges and universities. Self inflicted harm is a cry to survive life not to end life.

“TO BE or NOT TO BE” is the question. Long before teens debate the former they have taken their time at struggling in handling the dictate “MAY BE”. The confusion, depression and anxiety only compounds many students who are stressed with school work in environments and campuses that are not as comfortable has their home.